The way we learn from our children

I have stepped back to see what gifts my children bring to my life. I wanted children for as long as I can remember, I had struggles with getting children and through those struggles I was able to see until I knew I had a lot to learn from them I would not be gifted with such bright people in my life.

When we are calm, our children find ways to be calm. Our children want this just as much as we do, they don't want anger and unsure feelings in their safe place (home). My husband has taken steps to calm his mind and body through this he has gained not only better ways to handle his world but a great and wonderful growing relationship with our/his children.

I can now see clearly that the processes we do for ourselves also release something in the ones who are around us in our lives. Cadence (6) has done many processes, the most recent on promises and this corrected a deep thought process within our 3 year old Caitlin as well. Caitlin would randomly walk around the house telling everyone she promised. Lol yea she did this and it was for every little thing, she may have not known at the time the true meaning but none the less it was part of her programing that she learned while being around others. Now I am happy to report that she no loner does this, her program was released and rewritten for her to now make way for her true self not her sisters.

My husband did a process on love and self worth, a VERY major issue for everyone. I thank him for being so honest with himself and willing to correct his old way of thinking that did not serve his best good. Having low self worth is the program of others not our own we come into this world knowing how great and powerful we are not till our life conditions does this reverse for us, and raises doubt. When these processes were completed and it had time to fully become his new way of thought and life our/his children responded to him more positively. Caitlin listens without fighting him, she loves talking with him and even follows him around the house.

We have seen a big change in Caitlin with our processes not sitting and working on her but with ourselves. Again when we are calm so are our children, when we love ourselves we teach our child two things; one how to love their selves, two how to love others.

Our little reflections come in many forms when we have children its through them we see most of them!

As I sit here writing this blog I have two beautiful girls listening to Bach. Cadence reading and writing,Caitlin playing with dolls. I see around me such peace but I see peace within myself. Bach was Cadence's choice, reading was her choice she makes many choices like this all the time. How do we support growth if its never there to choose? Children are conditioned to the life that they live and what they are surrounded by.

You want to go to sleep and watch trash (mindless) t.v, your child will choose your path (by condition). You hate to read or listen to music that has no soul so will your children, Your children reflect you down to a tee. If they are off the wall crazy energy, can't sit down, can't think about one thing at a time (As Doreen Virtue stated ADHD should stand for Attention Dialed into a Higher Dimension not dealt with medication) then you MUST look within yourself to see what you need to calm within. Set good examples, lay out good healthy growth choices and allow them all the things you want your inner child to have in life.

It all starts with thought then moves to emotion then that turns to action. What action do you want to have today?

HMLM:

Belief Statement:
My world reflects myself I am nervous because this is a big job for myself. I gain love and understanding while losing nothing.

Spirit Statement:
My world reflects me I am calm and aware of myself. I am love and understanding.