Seven steps on children

I have had an issue with people making promises and not keeping them or asking me to make promises when it wasn't needed. I did a process on this thinking that I had a core issue here and to me it did feel completed.

My oldest daughter just about every night was asking me to make promises that her father would give her a hug and a kiss when he got home from work. Last night was just like all the other nights before, and once again she asked me to make a promise. Instead of just huffing and puffing at the thought of "oh no not again" I choose to ask "what is a promise"? Her answer "trusting that it will happen" so now I had a starting point a good core issue in HMLM world lol.

Her Higher Mind, Lower Mind process:

I always need to hear promises
I feel upset
I think I'm always asleep so I don't trust it happens
I gain nervous energy
I lose my trust

Belief Statement:

I always need to hear promises, this makes me feel upset because I'm always asleep so I don't trust it happens. I gain nervous energy and lose my trust

Spirit Statement:

I am trust, I feel peace because I am always aware. I am calm and trust myself.


Now I learned through this and other conversations today that what I have been programmed into thinking and didn't see is that we must communicate 100% with our children on all levels. We can not allow ourselves or our children to not be aware of our world even while asleep at night. We are all connected on a level that is not spoken and once this connection is lost this is where mistrust and doubt come into play.

I trust my husband is in bed with me even when I sleep because of the connection I have with him on other planes. Our children are on this same level with us. Its all knowing and all loving. We have to remember to stay connected at all times and on all levels.