Finding common ground

Most parents have trouble finding common ground for their thoughts and those of their childrens. When parents today stop listening to the loudness of the daily elements and go within to listen to the quite communication with themselves and their children they can begin to get that common ground.

Parents have many shifts in what they want in life just as parents do. Like myself; one day I want to go to school, one day I want to keep the part time job I have, and then the next I want a full time job with attending school part time. We all do this our children are no different! My shift today is that I want to do everything in life, that there isn't anything I can't do. I want to work for a company, I want to help others, I want to attend school for psychology, and I want my own business. I know I am a leader but I also know I am a leader who will change the direction of my travels almost daily and I know I need balance. Do you have the same balance needs? Do you feel yourself being superwoman one day and a slug the next? Then read on...

Go with the flow allow what is to be just to BE and that will not only provide the happiness you desire but the happiness your children desire as well. You make many choices in life and most you believe you're doing for your children or your family only, but the fact of the matter is that you must have a drive for selfish reasons as well or what ever the desire is will never materialize for you. What does it matter what people think about you? How could you ever be strong if all you did was worry about how others viewed you?

Think back to when you were young and in your alone times; was what you wanted in life yours or your families desire for you? Now think about all you want now out of life; are they yours or those of others around you? Many parents can't find a common ground in this either they have lost the way on the road to life, one exit sign to another all just became a big blur and now the one and only exit sign on the road is the one to easy street. No thought is original we (Parents) all think alike even though we were raised different, we all have this idea of what we want for our children and most of us have no idea of what we want for ourselves.

You can strip away this limiting belief of no common ground to stand on, the limiting belief that the children can and must come first. This is all up to you, every bit of your life is in your control. Are you in the driver seat?

If you are ready to be your driver in life follow the links below if you want local or over the phone there is still a map to life waiting just for you!
www.highermindlowermind.com
www.thedancewithchildren.weebly.com